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Abstinence

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What is abstinence?
Abstinence is the decision to not have sex (vaginal, oral and anal).

How does it work?
The egg and sperm do not meet; therefore, fertilization does not occur.

How is it used?
Abstinence is for men or women. Either individual makes a decision not to have sex and sticks to it, or the couple makes the decision not to have sex and sticks to it. Learning assertiveness, negotiation and planning skills is helpful when practicing abstinence.

How well does it work?
Abstinence is 100 percent effective as long as sex does not occur.

Does it reduce risk for HIV/AIDS and sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)?
There is a 100 percent reduced risk for sexual transmission of HIV/AIDS and STDs if abstaining from all forms of sex (vaginal, oral and anal) There is no reduced risk for HIV/AIDS and STDs if you abstain only from vaginal sex or if you engage in other risky behavior.

What are the advantages?

  • Abstinence eliminates the risk of contracting HIV/AIDS and STDs.

  • There are no health risks or side effects.

  • It can be used at any time, regardless of prior sexual experience.

  • It may be valued by some individuals, families and religious groups.

  • Abstinence allows users to focus on non-sexual aspects of relationship.

What are the disadvantages?

  • Abstinence may be hard to stick with.

  • It requires decision-making, negotiation and planning skills.

What if I have sex and don't use birth control?
Did you know that for 72 hours after sex, you can take emergency contraceptive pills to avoid becoming pregnant? Did you know that for five to seven days after sex, you can have an IUD inserted so you won't become pregnant? Not all clinicians know about these options.

If you want more information or would like the phone numbers of clinicians near you who prescribe emergency birth control, call the toll-free number 888.NOT2.LATE or 800.584.9911. Some of these sources of help are free.

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